I swear my blog brother Jamari spoils me and I had to share this story with your guys! This story is actually from one of my other personal favorite blogs DL Confessions Sequel! I warn you that this story is quite sad but I think we need to talk about it and spread it around! I swear you will love this blog by the way!
Anyway this story is about a young man from Puerto Rico named Manuel, who used to play around with Immanuel (the blogger of DLCS)! Again it’s pretty fucked up but I am sure his story could somebody out there!
Remember Manuel, the cute hottie Morgan and I did in Puerto Rico?
He has kept us with us on Facebook and through cellphone texts. He really comes across as a sensitive soul â you can see him in Facebook photo posts posing with his chubby baby nieces and nephews, hugging his elderly mother tight and cuddling with his pet cats and dogs.
âI love black men,â he will write sometimes. âYou two were really hot.â
âWell, if you ever come to Washington, D.C. come visit. You are welcome,â I say.But a few weeks ago Manuel, who is 25, revealed some troubling facts about himself that donât fit in well with the warm and fuzzy photos he posts on Facebook.
Read the rest of the story here!
Again the story was kinda fucked up. That is why we have to teach our youth how to survive! We lose some very young in this life and some of us never grow up.
On the surface, Manuel is just a twenty-something hot piece of ass from Puerto Rico but as you read in the story, he is trying to make in this life.
You never know what people are going through in life, hence why we shouldn’t be quick to judge a person.
On the flip side of that you have to learn how to get through the bullshit in life. I am so grateful to have made it at 29 and live through the drama I have been through. I am college educated but there is nothing like having street smarts with a little common sense.
I know what it is like to live in the hood as a child and as an adult. I know how to survive in the WORST neighborhoods. I lived in the some of the worst neighborhoods in both Chicago and Atlanta! 76th and College Grove (Southside of Chicago), Jackson & Western (west side of Chicago), Adamville area (Atlanta)! I had to learn how to survive and I made it!
I don’t any shit from anybody and if you’re not try to advance in life and be a better person, I ain’t got time for it! I wasn’t always like that though.
I used to be VERY naive. I was quiet and a bit of an introvert. I really didn’t come out of my shell until my college years. In high school, I was innocent. I didn’t drink, I didn’t party, I didn’t smoke or even have sex. That change when I went to college. I had my fun! Meet a lot of cool people, experience a lot of bad habits….LOL!
I also made a lot of dumb mistakes! Some of those mistakes could have got me killed or seriously hurt. I met men, who took advantage of me. Some didn’t mean me any good. I even dated a guy, who was verbally abusive to me. I had friends who were VERY toxic for me. Thank god I didn’t have to go through what Manuel went through but it was tough! It’s still tough sometimes..
I am glad to have lived through some of those horrible life experiences because it made me a better person. I can be the sweetest individual that you will EVER know but think you can take from me and get away with it! I have that ‘Cut you now and ask question’s later type of attitude!
These days I ain’t got the time for bullshit. Next year I will be 30 and I got plans and goals in life! Sure I am still a hopeless romantic, who wants someone to share my life with but I don’t NEED a companion right now. Sure I flirt with men but I don’t make myself available to them. I can smell bullshit from five miles away and I don’t ignore my intuitions. Â I keep a TIGHT circle. I STILL have my fun but I am about business too! You gotta get to that place in life to understand what I am talking about.
You gotta go through the bullshit to learn! You are going to stumble but make sure you get up and don’t waste time. Learn how to pay attention to what’s going on in the world and never think that it won’t happen to you! Read the newspaper sometimes. Life happens everyday but you gotta up, say a prayer, and live life! LIVE YOUR TRUTH!
I wish Manuel and my other survivors, all the blessings in the world!
![I am a true advocate for masturbation. I think every man and woman should masturbate. There would be more peace in the world! I manage to masturbate at least two to three times a day on average. I find that the days I engage in masturbation, I am less stressful! I tell everyone, who will listen to try it at least once (if they haven’t already.)It’s healthier, it’s free and you stay out of trouble!
I found this article by Men’s Health. Five Health Benefits Of Masturbation!
A new survey from adult product peddler AdamandEve.com reveals that 27 percent of Americans admit to masturbating once or twice a week.
That number seems suspiciously low to us, especially since science has shown that being master of your domain can provide additional feel-great benefits. (Also because the people surveyed were browsing an adult toy website.) âMasturbation is part of a healthy sex life,â says Gloria Brame, Ph.D., a clinical sexologist. âItâs totally safe and harmless. Itâs healthier than brushing your teeth every day.â
And just as brushing your teeth should be a regular occurrence, so too should be cleaning your pipes. Here are 5 reasons to take matters into your own hands right now. (Youâre welcome.)
It prevents cancer. A 2003 Australian study found that men who ejaculated more than five times a week were a third less likely to develop prostate cancer. Disease-causing toxins build up in your urogenital tract and when you rub one out, you flush the bad guys out of your system, says Brame.
It makes you harder. As you age, you naturally lose muscle tone ⦠even down there. Regular sex or masturbation works out your pelvic floor muscles to prevent erectile dysfunction and incontinence. âIt keeps the angle of your dangle perky,â says Brame. Aim to (ahem) arrive 3 to 5 times a week for rock-solid results.
It helps you last longer. Taking yourself to palm prom may help you stretch your sack sessions. â[Masturbating] an hour before a date will give you more control,â says Brame. Train yourself by timing how long it takes you to orgasm, suggests Ava Cadell, Ph.D., founder of loveologyuniversity.com. If it usually takes two minutes solo, try for three next time. Or count how many strokes you need to get to your happy place. If youâre spurting after 50, shoot for 60. âMost men can double the number of strokes and the time within one month,â Cadell says. Practice makes perfect, right?
It ups your immunity. Ejaculation increases levels of the hormone cortisol, says Jennifer Landa, M.D., a specialist inhormone therapy. Cortisol, which usually gets a bad rap as a havoc-wrecking stress hormone, actually helps regulate and maintain your immunity in the small doses. âMasturbation can product the right environment for a strengthened immune system,â she says.
It boosts your mood. Masturbating releases a slew of feel-good neurochemicals like dopamine and oxytocin that lift your spirits, boost your satisfaction, and activate the reward circuits in your brain. âAn orgasm is the biggest non-drug blast of dopamine available,â says Brame. âA brain scan of someone having an orgasm looks like a heroin addictâs.â
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I am a true advocate for masturbation. I think every man and woman should masturbate. There would be more peace in the world! I manage to masturbate at least two to three times a day on average. I find that the days I engage in masturbation, I am less stressful! I tell everyone, who will listen to try it at least once (if they haven’t already.)It’s healthier, it’s free and you stay out of trouble!
I found this article by Men’s Health. Five Health Benefits Of Masturbation!
A new survey from adult product peddler AdamandEve.com reveals that 27 percent of Americans admit to masturbating once or twice a week.
That number seems suspiciously low to us, especially since science has shown that being master of your domain can provide additional feel-great benefits. (Also because the people surveyed were browsing an adult toy website.) âMasturbation is part of a healthy sex life,â says Gloria Brame, Ph.D., a clinical sexologist. âItâs totally safe and harmless. Itâs healthier than brushing your teeth every day.â
And just as brushing your teeth should be a regular occurrence, so too should be cleaning your pipes. Here are 5 reasons to take matters into your own hands right now. (Youâre welcome.)
It prevents cancer. A 2003 Australian study found that men who ejaculated more than five times a week were a third less likely to develop prostate cancer. Disease-causing toxins build up in your urogenital tract and when you rub one out, you flush the bad guys out of your system, says Brame.
It makes you harder. As you age, you naturally lose muscle tone ⦠even down there. Regular sex or masturbation works out your pelvic floor muscles to prevent erectile dysfunction and incontinence. âIt keeps the angle of your dangle perky,â says Brame. Aim to (ahem) arrive 3 to 5 times a week for rock-solid results.
It helps you last longer. Taking yourself to palm prom may help you stretch your sack sessions. â[Masturbating] an hour before a date will give you more control,â says Brame. Train yourself by timing how long it takes you to orgasm, suggests Ava Cadell, Ph.D., founder of loveologyuniversity.com. If it usually takes two minutes solo, try for three next time. Or count how many strokes you need to get to your happy place. If youâre spurting after 50, shoot for 60. âMost men can double the number of strokes and the time within one month,â Cadell says. Practice makes perfect, right?
It ups your immunity. Ejaculation increases levels of the hormone cortisol, says Jennifer Landa, M.D., a specialist inhormone therapy. Cortisol, which usually gets a bad rap as a havoc-wrecking stress hormone, actually helps regulate and maintain your immunity in the small doses. âMasturbation can product the right environment for a strengthened immune system,â she says.
It boosts your mood. Masturbating releases a slew of feel-good neurochemicals like dopamine and oxytocin that lift your spirits, boost your satisfaction, and activate the reward circuits in your brain. âAn orgasm is the biggest non-drug blast of dopamine available,â says Brame. âA brain scan of someone having an orgasm looks like a heroin addictâs.â
MASCULINE DOES NOT MEAN TOTAL TOP!!!
One of my favorite Youtubers AmorMuse breaks it down with gay stereotypes!
So You Want To Be A Video Vixen?
This video is for my female readers who may be interested in being the next Draya or Evelyn Lozada (yes she was a video vixen). Former video vixen & model Soncerae spills tea on what it’s REALLY like to being a video vixen.
Shout out to my boy Jamari for finding the video!
